tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37439924460005292542024-03-05T10:18:06.508-06:00Accessible ArkansasSpotlighting accessible or inaccessible public or private entertainment, travel, shopping, events and services in Arkansas. Personal insights on disability of all sorts. Living with invisible disabilities. Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10449486002164552303noreply@blogger.comBlogger303125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3743992446000529254.post-28255094231854317312016-01-29T06:44:00.000-06:002016-01-29T06:45:21.646-06:00Why do I Have a Label?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Uhhh. Sadly, most of us as we age find our bodies don’t perform as well as they did 20 years ago. Or maybe as well as yesterday. </div>
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I know my 75 year old body resists so many things that I could easily do just a few years ago. I use to open jars for other people, now, I need help in opening the ones I want to use. Thank heavens they make nifty little gadgets these days to help open jars, to help reach and pick up things.</div>
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I love my grabbers. I have them inside and outside. They let me pick up something off the floor without asking somebody else. I can get stuff down off a high shelf. Why the hell did I put stuff up there? Was I taller when I put the stuff up there? Must be.</div>
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And if I can’t right off put my hands on that little piece of rubber made to help open jars because some invisible occupant of the house did not return it to its spot, I can slam that sucker down on the counter to loosen it up or better yet, I have a pair of channel locks that can get tops off most jars.</div>
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My balance continues to worsen, but I can still get where I want to go in the house. And outside I have my trusty scooter to get into the garden or down to the mailbox at the end of the driveway.</div>
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It is the rest of the world who calls me disabled. The people and places who do not make their homes or businesses accessible. If they were available to me to spend money in, I would be just like ever other 75 year old. No longer disabled. Only old and that’s fine.</div>
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It’s funny that if anyone is anything that falls outside of the white, male, abled, wage earning, ideal that has been set up as what we all need to be or at least aspire to, we are disabled and see displays of prejudice every single day. </div>
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In 1964, we had a law that gave civil rights to African Americans who had never been covered by the Constitution before. They were then able to vote and attend integrated schools. Although that has worked a little bit, we have not yet gotten past the inculcated racism that is endemic in our country. We can certainly see it in the Republican party these days with the candidates telling us how wholesale racism will make this country great. Go figure. </div>
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The Equal Rights amendment was proposed in 1923 and again in 1972. It has not yet been ratified by the number of states required to make women equal to men. For some reason that’s OK with women. Go figure. </div>
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The ADA was made into law 25+ years ago. It has not yet done much.</div>
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So maybe instead of making laws about disability rights, gay rights, rights for people of color, women’s rights, we need to just have equal rights for the entire population. Why must we be ranked? And who does the ranking and the ensuing separation?</div>
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Really, male citizens of the US, is power and control so important to you that making everyone else feel small, powerless and not part of your tribe, that you do not follow the laws of the country and feel justified in doing so. </div>
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Kansas is a long state if you are driving it the east/west way. It took me a few days to get across it with not all that many tourist spots to see.</div>
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Truman Capote wrote “In Cold Blood’ He lived in New Orleans, so I wanted to see where he did his research for his book <a href="http://www.thenation.com/article/november-15-1959-the-clutter-family-is-murdered-in-holcomb-texas-later-the-subject-of-truman-capotes-in-cold-blood/">http://www.thenation.com/article/november-15-1959-the-clutter-family-is-murdered-in-holcomb-texas-later-the-subject-of-truman-capotes-in-cold-blood/</a></div>
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I spent a day near Holcomb, Kansas seeing the spot <a href="http://www.house-crazy.com/in-cold-blood-murder-house-in-holcomb-kansas/">http://www.house-crazy.com/in-cold-blood-murder-house-in-holcomb-kansas/</a> where the Herbert Clutter family was murdered by two men who thought there was a large amount of money hidden in the house. Truman Capote wrote about the murder in the book, “In Cold Blood.” The murders happened while I was in high school and the newspapers were full of the story. I was fascinated not even imagining that anybody would murder anyone for any reason. I was 17 years old and naive. Growing up in a really small town will do that for a child. And, of course, Truman Capote lived and worked in New Orleans, so I had a connection to him when I moved there in 1969. I had to visit and I did. Holcomb, Kansas is about as unassuming as any town of under 3000 people. There’s no reason for a tourist to visit, but I wanted to and I did. I spent the day looking around and buying the night’s dinner and slept in a park nearby. I often slept in city parks, fairgrounds or other public spaces in a town. I didn’t put up the tent when I did that and only was awakened by a policeman once and that was in Mill Valley, CA, in Marin County just on the north side of the Golden Gate bridge.</div>
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After seeing that part of Kansas in the blistering heat, with the cottonwood doing what they do in late June, I went to Dodge City to have a drink at the Long Branch. I know it was backtracking a bit, but remember I didn’t have an itinerary and I had plenty of time.</div>
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The second night, I stayed in some very flat county park. Oh before I say that, I should say that the cottonwood tree is the state tree of Kansas. It’s a fine tree except in June. In May and June it flings its seeds around so the ground looks like this:</div>
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Kansas was easy to drive in. You can see a hundred miles easy with no hills. And it was Kansas that brought me to Colorado.</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10449486002164552303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3743992446000529254.post-9182322125192557992016-01-27T06:37:00.000-06:002016-01-27T06:37:00.666-06:00Donna Speaks: Adventures with Mike<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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You'll remember me mentioning dad's Weimaraner, Mike, in my last post: Pump It Up. Mike was a favorite of my oldest son. </div>
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Mike was a very big imposing dog, as most Weimaraners are. But they are obedient, playful, protective, lovable and loving dogs. My dad had trained Mike and he unfailingly did my dad's bid. </div>
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One favorite trick was tell Mike to lie down and put both paws straight out in front of him on the ground. Dad would then place treats on the top of Mike's paws. The dog would sit, staring at the treats and, very patiently, wait for dad to say "OK, Mike." I think the dog woulda waited forever, with those treats on his paws, to get dad's ok.</div>
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My oldest son was a little over a year old when we traveled in our VW camper van from Fayetteville, NC, where his dad was stationed, to Alexandria. It was summer and we were all (mom, dad, me, my son's dad, and my oldest son) outside, sitting in lawn chairs under the mimosa trees. Mike was there, too.</div>
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Mike got up from laying at my dad's feet and moseyed around to carport, probably headed for his water near the back door spigot. Number One son toddled behind him.</div>
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Not long after the two had headed for the back, I heard moaning. Initially, I ignored the soulful sound. Then everyone noticed it and remarked. Dad said, "It sounds like a dog... like Mike... What the hell?!".</div>
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I got up to investigate, following the "OOOUUUUOOOAAA". As I rounded the corner, the sight I saw proved dad right.</div>
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Mike was standing very still and stiff in the green grass next to the carport with his head was lifted toward the sky in a mournful howl. </div>
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Number One Son was strategically situated, and peering at Mike's rear end. He had a very determined but curious look on his face. His big brown eyes were twice their normal size. </div>
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As I walked up by the side of the two, I saw Number One Son's little one-year-old-hands holding, and squeezing, as hard as he could, Mike's balls. Intermittently, he would kinda twist the balls. (Testicle Torsion Twist.) Mike moaned particularly loudly when Number One applied the TTT. My son was mesmerized.</div>
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I called my son's name, "What are you doing?!" Mike turned his head and looked at me with a "For god's sake, HELP ME!" in his bluish eyes.</div>
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"Momma, see?" said Number One, wide smile on his face. "Balls, momma. Balls!" He giggled. "See... see". He was just tickled pink and very proud of his accomplishment.</div>
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Fortunately, a 25 pound, one year old's small hands do little permanent damage to a Weimaraner's balls. So Mike was no worse for the wear and my son had had his first experience balls other than his own.</div>
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Coincidently, the "Mike Adventure" was, in a way, a predictor of things to come in Number One Son's future life.</div>
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Bless his little heart.</div>
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"Momma... momma... we was just... Well, see Mike is so big... and... ahhh... we wanted to make Susie big, too. See, " </div>
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"So Donnan found my dad's bike pump and we were gonna pump Susie up... See... momma...? We wanted to make her big like Mike."</div>
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But, I don't know. Thinking about it now: Maybe it woulda worked.</div>
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When a family is in crisis, any or all the members often seek family counseling. Dad thinks he can just ignore the problem and it will go away. Mom thinks she can fix it all by herself because she is the strength in the family. The children are usually most affected, but they are not sure why. It's entirely possible that one or more of the children are the reason for the family crisis.</div>
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Family counseling participants often present as mom arriving at the therapist's office saying, "I want you to see my 12 year old daughter because she has a problem." The family counselor takes a history and generally responds, "You are going through a crisis as a family, therefore, I need to see every member of the family. I will see you and your husband separately and together, then I will see your 12 year old and as we find out what out the problems are from her perspective. Then we will deal with the problem as a family, together and separately."</div>
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A good counselor will recognize that the family problem might be temporary and easily talked through in a short time. It also may deal with a long term problem such as dealing with a disability of a child or one of the parents. A treatment plan for the family can be devised and then altered as the family needs dictate. If the family is in crisis, the therapist will see them perhaps as much as twice a week. As the crisis abates, the sessions may be only once a week until everyone is comfortable.</div>
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A good family counselor will be able to deal with every member of the family, refer if necessary. For example, if drugs or alcohol are involved, perhaps a referral to an inpatient or outpatient drug or alcohol rehabilitation program. The other treatment programs will also have a family treatment component and it then becomes part of the total treatment team for the family.</div>
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Family counseling must involve all members of the family in distress. The family is equally involved in the treatment plan, defining short and long term goals. Often family counseling can bring a family back together will all of them working to resolve the family crisis.</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10449486002164552303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3743992446000529254.post-15306481298849794752016-01-24T05:31:00.000-06:002016-01-24T05:32:45.924-06:00Donna Speaks: Giving up the Tit<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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You know, if you've read my blog posts, that I had three sons who are now three handsome, intelligent, wonderful men. When a mother says that, she means that her children no longer live with her, they all have jobs, and they are financially independent. These are the three hallmarks of successful parenting.</div>
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I breast fed all three boys: the oldest, for almost a year; the middle, for about six months; and, the youngest, for only about four months. The reason for the decreasing time breast-feeding was not a lack of commitment on my part, but sibling rivalry and the fact that all three boys had minds of their own. </div>
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My middle son had little competition from his older brother; he was in preschool. So competition wasn't really what caused his wean. My middle son determined his own fate. </div>
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He was around six months old and decided the only time he wanted to breast feed was between two and four in the morning.</div>
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He didn't wanna suckling when normal babies do. No, not for breakfast in the morning, when he awoke. No cuddle with mommy then. And, it was also a "No thanks, mom" when he was ready for bed at night. Not this baby boy. </div>
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Then, through the brain fog caused by very little sleep and a screaming red-headed child, the solution became clear: Benign Neglect.</div>
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It took four to five straight nights ignoring the cacophony, but the babe gradually gave up, and hushed up. Normalcy returned to our household. Well, let me say, as normal as our household ever got. </div>
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Number three son really never had a chance to breast-feed until he wanted to wean.</div>
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What happened is gonna be fodder for my next post. That, and the Marshmallow Tales.</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10449486002164552303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3743992446000529254.post-78459240157719841712016-01-23T05:56:00.000-06:002016-01-23T05:56:05.345-06:00O-o-o-Oklahoma Where the Wind, Well, You Know the Rest<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I would always park near the door of whatever store I was going to. I usually came back to my bike, made my sandwich and ate it either on my bike or under a tree nearby. Folks would always come over to talk. Usually they wanted to know where I had come from and where I was going.</div>
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Geez, I had a Louisiana license plate and really no idea where I was going. Most also said they would be afraid of traveling like I was. But also most said they wish they could just take off on a bike for as long as they wanted, but they just couldn’t. They would have to wait until they retired. </div>
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They had jobs that they could not quit. They had wives, children or husbands to care for. They had RESPONSIBILITIES. They had to have jobs to pay for their houses and cars that were expensive. They had to waste hours a day driving back and forth to a job they hated so they could collect a paycheck. They didn’t realize that if they didn’t have big houses and cars, they would have those awful responsibilities.</div>
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Even my parents were appalled at what I was doing, but once in talking to my dad, he said he would love to be going along right then. He wasn’t retired yet back in 1973 and would never be one to shirk any responsibilities to my mother, so put off his traveling until several years later.</div>
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I found Lake Tenkiller after finding it on a map and seeing a lake there. I headed straight north to Tenkiller. What a road to the now state park. It was not much more than a path. And a ten mile long path. Motorcycles do not do well in sand or gravel, tending to slide around and fall over. I didn’t do that but I’m surprised I didn’t. I kept thinking, this better be worth it just for a place to sleep. I rode in mostly standing up on my bike. That’s a good way to stay balanced in sand and gravel.</div>
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“The construction was begun on the Tenkiller Ferry Dam in 1947. The lake was named after the Tenkillers (a prominent Cherokee family who owned land and worked a ferry service near the site where the dam is now located. The Legend states that during the “Trail of Tears” era, the Cherokee warrior received his name by the soldiers and pioneers at Fort Gibson because of the ten notches in his bow.”</div>
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Baby boomers, those born from 1946 to 1964 are headed into retirement age and with it, diseases and mobility problems caused by aging. Boomers are insisting that houses be build or retrofit to include their needs as the age. Boomers do not want to seek nursing home or assisted living care if they can be independent. A few adjustments to their houses can make barrier free living possible. Many of those adjustments include bathrooms that can make the room safer for the occupants of the house. Making plumbing work for the house is more important than you think. Ask your plumber what is best for your needs and wants.</div>
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In fact, builders are beginning to build barrier free houses. Building that way adds little if anything to the cost of building and makes it possible to live in your house when disabilities begin to impede your mobility.</div>
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Those of you who think you will never be disabled, you are wrong. You are only temporarily abled. Think of your older relatives. How many could live independently as they aged? If their plumbing were modified so bathrooms were accessible would they be able to live at home longer? Why not make your home accessible when you are building it and not wait until you need to retrofit? </div>
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As boomers age, we have needs for barrier free houses including taller toilets, walk in tubs, and showers that can accommodate wheelchairs. Your plumber is an expert in guiding you how to best meet your needs.</div>
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Ask about different bathtubs and showers. Some bathtubs are designed with doors in them, so you can walk in, close the door, sit down, fill the tub with water and enjoy a bath. If you are shower person, some showers have seats built in, others have no lip and a wheelchair can roll in. </div>
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Getting older is difficult for anyone. Make easier on yourself. Oh, and stay in your home longer. Assisted living is expensive.</div>
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That's correct: beaches. When I told them, "Get ready. We're going to the beach." They'd always ask, "The clean beach or the dirty beach?"</div>
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"The Dirty Beach" was the one in Biloxi; "The Clean Beach" was 90 minutes away in Alabama.</div>
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There Tod was. Standing in the water. Standing knee deep in the water. His swim suit was around his ankles, swaying to and fro with the tide. He had his little dick in his little hands, with his fully exposed little butt kinda tucked in... Ya know, in that guy-peeing-posture. And he was letting the pee rip, in that well-known pee-arch - for all the world to see.</div>
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"But, mom," as he explained to me later, "Ya told me to pee in the water." It was my fault; I'd just forgotten to tell the little man NOT to pull his swim suit down... </div>
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To a different drummer that child, now a man, has always walked.</div>
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That was probably the first time, of many times, throughout the years, that I called out, "Taaaa-oddd?"</div>
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Arkansas is one really pretty state. I thought that then and here 40 years later I am living here still thinking it’s a pretty state. Most of the bottom half is relatively flat, but when you get north a bit, you run smack into the Ozark Mountains. Now they aren’t much in the way of mountains, not like the Rockies, the Cascades or even the Adirondacks. But they are beautiful. </div>
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Arkansas has no national park, at least it didn’t in 1973. But it did have the Buffalo National River, now a national river, but not then.<br />
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It has many fine places to hike and most of all, for me, a great highway on which to put a <a href="https://www.bikesbluesandbbq.org/">Motorcycle</a> through its paces. The idea when riding roads like this one are to make a turn and have your foot pegs scrape the road. That’s the mark of either an experienced biker or a dumb one, maybe both.</div>
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The Ozark Folk Center was opened for the first time in May 1973. It sure didn’t look like it does today, now that I am living within 15 minutes of it. It has real biker days, featuring bike riders from all over the country who are welcomed to Mountain View, a far cry from folks who crossed the street to avoid us back in 1973.</div>
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And I had to go to Toad Suck, Arkansas because with a name like that, there had to be something there. There wasn't. Now there is a Toad Suck Days festival, but I have not been to it now that I live here.</div>
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I thank Jan for her blog post on clinical depression. It was very informative and helpful. I hope anyone who recognizes the symptoms does value themselves enough to get thee to a therapist.</div>
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I have some additional information to share that I also think will be informative and helpful to you.</div>
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Clinical Depression (CD) takes a toll on us from at least four different fronts.</div>
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The first front, Jan described: Clinical depression caused by situations we find ourselves in that are beyond our control. A relationship break-up, the loss of a job, or retirement from your life long job, losing possessions and/or your home as a result of a natural disaster can cause depression.</div>
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Jan also alluded to the second front: physiological. Depression can adversely affect all bodily systems. </div>
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For example, we know that serotonin, that feel-good chemical healthy bodies produce, is well known as a brain neurotransmitter. However, it is estimated that 90 percent of the body's serotonin is made in the digestive tract. In fact, altered levels of this peripheral serotonin have been linked to diseases such as irritable bowel syndrome, cardiovascular disease, and osteoporosis. CD and osteoporosis linked? You betcha.</div>
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Your immune system is also compromised by depression. When depressed, you are more likely to catch that bug everyone else has. Pain receptors become more sensitive: pain is more painful. And, your heart really does hurt.</div>
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On the third, family and friends front, there is also no doubt that depression makes developing and maintaining relationships much more difficult. Depressed people often isolate, become social hermits. This is not a conscious choice. You can rightfully blame that on Big Ole Aunt Anhedonia who usually comes to visit. When you are depressed, there ain't much you do that gives you pleasure. So you are pretty much likely to curl up on your couch in a fetal position and suck your thumb.</div>
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The fourth front, the cognitive front, is often not discussed as much as it needs to be. It is way-way-way important when doing therapy with CD folks.</div>
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Yes, when afflicted with CD, your mood is way, way down. And you feel Yuckie-Yuckie-Yuckie. But, your thoughts are, your thought process is, also really fucked up. What didn't piss you off last week, does now. The people you loved yesterday - especially your lover, husband, wife, partner, etc. - you cannot stand today. Your job was OK; now it isn't. What changed? You did. Your thoughts did. </div>
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Your thinking did. When your body declines to produce enough of the feel-good chemicals, your thinking goes in the toilet.</div>
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For a great percentage of the time, the things that upset us do so not because they are by their nature upsetting, but because of the way we think about them. This is why research has demonstrated that the most effective therapy for CD is Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT).</div>
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Our actions are a result of our feelings. Feelings are based on the way we think about life, love, people, places, and things. So, in therapy, we examine your Belief System (BS), help you find the flaws in it, the unhealthy beliefs, the stinkin 'thinkin', and assist you in re-thinking your BS, so you do not think BullShit anymore.</div>
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The drugs used to treat CD treat mood and cognition. They will elevate your mood and help correct your toilet-bowl thoughts. It is essential, in the long run, that you are able to think critically about the way you think, and change your flawed thinking in order to have long term success.</div>
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More thoughts about depression in my next blog.</div>
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I was visiting Jan in her Lakeview home shortly after we'd decided to ignore our usual "rules of engagement". I had initially thought Jan was full of shit, but made an exception in her case - considering all of her other wonderful qualities. Jan had sworn never to be in a relationship with a social worker (They're all crazy!) or a woman with children (They're nothing but trouble!). Considering all my other wonderful qualities, she also made an exception.</div>
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We we sitting next to each other on Jan's multicolored floral couch in her living room. Jan was narrating her photo albums: childhood photos, family, past encounters, friends.</div>
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As we traveled through her pictorial history, Jan casually pointed to a very young, smiling woman: slim with long brown curly hair. "This is Tina," Jan casually said. "I met her at her Dad's hardware store." </div>
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"Tina?" I said. "Yes, Tina. She lives in Arkansas now and has for many years. She takes care of the gardens at the Ozark Folk Center in Mountain View," and Jan flipped the page. I flipped it back.</div>
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My Mom and Dad also visited often. Dad loved to fly fish on the White River. My family had canoed and camped on the Buffalo River and explored its cliffs. My boys loved Blanchard Springs Caverns and pontoon boat trips on Bull Shoals. </div>
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One special night we were anchored out in the middle of this beautiful manmade lake, swimming and lying on our backs in the boat watching stars shoot all over the clear night sky. </div>
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After selling our home in Slidell, LA, I made my last trip from our old to our new home in Mt. View. Jan had already moved there a couple of years earlier to supervise renovations and commuted from Mountain View to Slidell every few months. I brought grand children with me.</div>
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They loved Mt. View and Mt. Home. They marveled at the many fossils we found around our home. After their first trip to the Ozark Folk Center, during which they traipsed along with Tina Marie on her tour, they wanted to return the next day. They were in awe of Blanchard Springs Caverns, and hiked up the mountain from the springs. </div>
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No fat please. Remember, you can’t eat much. Be thin or be shamed and alone. Fat women are judged on their appearance daily. Being fat is one of the first things they are shamed for. The tinier women are the better men like it. Remember the ten year old girl look. </div>
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Sadly, this ‘ideal woman’ image is reinforced by women. We are taught that by our mothers who were taught it by their mothers. It’s reinforced in schools, churches, the media, even Girl Scouts. Girls must be good girls first, then must constantly force themselves to fit into that perfect idea of what women should look like.</div>
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When will we become people in our own right? Maybe when we reclaim our bodies, stop accepting laws that take away our rights as humans. Old white men make these laws and we blindly accept them, often inculcate them because institutions tell us we must in order to be part of the tribe we want to be a part of.</div>
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I started women’s consciousness raising groups back in the 60’s. We were doing great, demanding equal rights and equal pay. Talking about being a person in our own right, not merely being an extension of some man. But I still hear, “I have to ask my husband.” “My husband doesn’t want me to work.” “My husband doesn’t want me to cut my hair.” </div>
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How do we separate having a bad day from clinical depression? Sometimes that's difficult to do. If a loved one dies, we understandably have bad days, often many weeks of bad days. Or if we are out of work, go through a divorce, even retirement can spark clinical depression.</div>
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Any traumatic events can lead to bad days. Suddenly, or not so suddenly, a string of bad days get so bad, we cannot function in day to day living. We feel awful. We feel like dying could not be nearly as bad as living. We have a real problem just getting out of bed in the morning or sleeping at night. And it never seems to end. We may begin self medicating with alcohol or drugs, but they only make us feel better for hours and then the sad feelings are back.</div>
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Our friends, family and colleagues ask us if we are OK. We may well be suffering from clinical depression. It's time to look for a therapist who can help us get back to our life loving self. She will begin depression therapy with us.</div>
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Depression therapy is often treated with the short term help of anti depressant drugs like Zoloft or Celexa. There are dozens of them and only an MD can prescribe them. So your therapy may begin with a visit to a psychiatrist or other medical doctor to get a prescription before you can begin talk therapy. Sometimes the medication is enough and your depression will begin to lift in a couple of weeks. One important thing medications can do is help lift your depression so you can concentrate on working with your therapist.</div>
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You will have an initial intake interview, often lasting 1.5 - 2 hours getting your history. Don't hold back. Tell her everything. She will not judge you, nor can you tell her something she has not heard before. The work to heal your depression starts here, so be honest. It's important.</div>
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Depression therapy is done by both of you, often with your family as well. All are important in your life and want you to return to the person you were before you got sick. Ask them to become involved with the therapist if it can help you.</div>
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I was standing at the kitchen sink looking out the window, washing dishes. I heard the roar of a motorcycle and looked up. This female-woman-lady person straddling a big ole black bike was carefully maneuvering it up the driveway to the house. From her slim body, long legs extended on either side of the leather saddle to the foot pegs.</div>
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As the roaring stopped, she planted those long legs firmly on the ground. Still seated, she popped the chin strap and lifted the helmet off her head to reveal short, curly, mostly pepper hair. The woman ran fingers of her left hand through her hair and turned to look at the house revealing a small, square face and brown eyes. When she spied me in the window, her lips smiled a crooked smile and her left hand waved. </div>
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My apartment in New Orleans had been broken into. The thieves gained entry through a window - after they'd removed the a/c unit. Even took my phone. I wanted to move. </div>
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A woman on the north shore of Lake Pontchartrain in rural Goodbee was looking for a house-sitter because she traveled a lot. Anyway, my new job was at a psychiatric hospital on the northshore. So I moved in to Liz's house. I'd only been there about a month when Liz came home for a respite and decided to throw a party.</div>
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Jan hardly knew Liz. She'd met her at a Christmas party. Didn't much like her. When she received Liz's invitation, she was less than excited but thought, "What the hell?" Jan rode her Honda all the way from her Lakeview home in New Orleans, across the Pontchartrain Causeway, through Mandeville, Covington, and Madisonville to Goodbee. It was over an hour trek that ended on a long-ass dirt-gravel road that led to the house.</div>
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After a few more days on the road, camping in state parks and sorting things out, I landed in Hot Springs, Arkansas. It took me a week to start getting comfortable with my packing system, bungie cords and how to best pare down to what I needed. </div>
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I have learned that the worst part of being on a bike for 200 miles, taking a break every 50 miles, is the vibration in your hands. Bought soft handlebar covers and they helped some. I also learned that 200 miles a day is more than enough.</div>
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I found out you can carry a dozen eggs bungie corded to the handle bars. The way eggs are packaged is probably the best example of good packaging of a fragile product in the world. This was before packing peanuts and shrink wrapped everything. By now I was enlarging my diet to include veggies, eggs, a bit of meat and the ever present potato. Fast food joints were already everywhere, but remember my $300.00 monthly budget. I cooked everything I ate. Peanut butter sandwiches were a staple. A real staple.</div>
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In Southern Arkansas, is <a href="https://www.google.com/search?client=safari&rls=en&q=Hot+Springs+National+Park&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8">Hot Springs National Park</a>, a tiny park only 8 square miles. Most of it is bathhouses. It’s tough to find a hot spring in or out of the park. I suppose if I had gone to one of the bathhouses, i may have been able to find a hot spring, but even finding a place to park near the visitor’s center was difficult. Hell, finding the visitors center was difficult. I soon gave up. Stayed the night.</div>
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<span style="color: black;"> “</span>The origin of the name Toad Suck is disputed. Some hold it received the name when idle rivermen would congregate at the local tavern where they would "suck on the bottle 'til they swell up like toads’, while others believe it is a corruption of a French phrase meaning ‘a narrow channel in the river.’”</div>
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These days there is a festival called Toad Suck Days. When I was there, nobody really capitalized on the name Toad Suck. And you could pretty much see why they didn’t. It was just a small town. But it had a small city park that I could and did sleep in. </div>
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New babies have that "New Baby Smell" just like new cars have that "New Car Smell". I love both, but babies better, especially when, after several whiffs, squeezes, and rocks, you can, unlike a new car, return the baby. My grand-niece, Avery, three months, has that wonderful smell. It's the fragrance of innocence. Would that we could bottle it. It'd beat out all of ole Liz Taylor's fragrances by a mile and we'd make millions.</div>
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The Marines may have a "Few Good Men"; I have a "Few Good Friends". In a life lived well and lived well-intentioned, you can only have a Few Good Friends. Really Good Friends, like Really Good Life Partners, take lotsa time to make them last a life time. </div>
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Because they are so good, you want to spent lotsa time with them. When I go home, I spent lotsa time with my best friend, Chris. Every time I do, she teaches me something new about life, love, and caring for one another. Then I come home. I spend lotsa time (more than ever) with Jan, the Love of My Life. Daily, she teaches me more and more about life, love, and caring for each other. We teachers are never too old to learn.</div>
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Also, we are never too old to make new friends. During my visits home, Chris has reintroduced me to two folks with whom we attended high school: Mary Clare and Glen. They weren't friends in high school; they are now. We spend time together every time I go home. </div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10449486002164552303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3743992446000529254.post-41953478675764506002016-01-12T05:42:00.000-06:002016-01-12T05:42:01.545-06:00Random Thoughts about Education<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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If he didn't read poetry to me at night, how would I learn to love it?</div>
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If my grandpa didn't teach me to glaze a window or use a square, who would?</div>
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If my mother didn't teach me to measure a teaspoon, who would?</div>
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If my grandma didn't teach me to dig worms and bait a hook, who would?</div>
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If he didn't teach me to make up rhymes and songs, who would?</div>
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If my grandpa didn't teach me how to eat an oyster, who would?</div>
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If my mother didn't teach me how to fix a toilet, who would?</div>
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If my grandma didn't teach me to plant a carrot, who would?</div>
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If my grandpa didn't teach me to drive a truck, who would?</div>
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If my grandma didn't teach me to clean a fish, who would?</div>
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If they didn't teach me independence, perseverance, and the ability to know what was right and fight for it, who would?</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10449486002164552303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3743992446000529254.post-27735266014732161022016-01-11T06:42:00.000-06:002016-01-11T06:42:59.004-06:00Night One. Percy Quin State Park<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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So I set out on June 1, 1973 with my bike piled high with essential stuff. I had a goal for night one, a Mississippi State Park across Lake Pontchartrain and into Mississippi. It was to be short ride and an early night. Percy Quin is 106 miles. Easy, right?</div>
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I soon found out that many things I had tied to my bike were unessential. So much so that they flew off my bike as I crossed the 26 mile Causeway across Lake Pontchartrain. But the time I got to Percy Quin, my pile was considerably smaller. Who needed a book of maps? See what I mean about learning along the way. I had no destination in mind except Rocky Mountain National Park via Kansas, avoiding Texas because I didn’t like the state. </div>
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The first huge obstacle was starting a fire at the park, so I could fry my potato. I swear they treated that firewood with a fire retardant so they would never have a forest fire. Took me hours and lots of matches, but I got it going. It was dark for dinner, but that potato sure tasted good. Up with the tent, up with the air mattress, out with the sleeping bag. </div>
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I owned a motorcycle well before motorcycles were OK for anyone except outlaws. People crossed the street when they saw a biker coming and tried to run them off the road from their cars. I am not sure that has changed all that much.</div>
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When I first got the idea of taking a long trip on a bike, I was in my early 30’s. If anyone out there is planning one, start at least 2 years before your departure date. You won’t be ready to leave when you do leave, because lots of the learning is along the way.</div>
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I made arrangements with a local bank to wire me $300.00 each month to a Western Union in a city where I was going to be. I would call them and let them know where to wire it. This was years before there was anything called an internet. </div>
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I already had a motorcycle, a Kawasaki 500 cc. It really was a speed bike, not a road bike, but I loved that bike and trusted it. That bike gave me one day of trouble. I did need a bit of work in Butte, Montana and had to be towed from Missoula because Butte had a bike shop, but that was a long time later. Had I been carrying an impact wrench, I could have fixed it myself, but that never made my take-with-me list.</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10449486002164552303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3743992446000529254.post-33867135571350996562016-01-09T05:53:00.000-06:002016-01-09T05:53:58.914-06:00Anxiety therapy<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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All of us are anxious at times, some of more than others. Some of us don't like heights or bridges or snakes or spiders. Others fear large crowds or heaven forbid, public speaking. Often folks have free floating general anxiety with no apparent cause. Others will not fly in an airplane but must drive or travel by train or bus. Phobias and anxieties often go hand in hand. Panic attacks can appear with anxiety.</div>
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Some of us are just worried all the time. We can worry about if we will get a good night's sleep, if we will past the test in school tomorrow, if boyfriend will like the new hairdo or if mom will get drunk again tonight. Most of the time we have nothing to worry about, but we don't know that, so we do it anyway.</div>
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When anxiety starts to get in the way of our lives, we can usually successfully resolve them with therapy. We find a good therapist like we find any other service. We can ask a friend, a family member, or even just check the internet for who is a Licensed Clinician in our area.</div>
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A good therapist will do an intake interview to assess your anxiety levels. Your honest input is the most important part of the interview. It starts the process of dealing with your anxiety. It may result in a referral for medication depending on your anxiety levels and how much they are impeding your day to day living. If you are not forthcoming with your therapist, you can waste valuable time before you start resolving your anxieties.</div>
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No matter how you feel about what you are revealing to the therapist, remember everything you say is completely confidential and never be revealed unless you give consent. Your case record is protected by law. And also remember, your therapist can never be surprised. She has heard much worse than you can possibly tell her, so be honest, be complete and don’t keep secrets from her.</div>
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During the coming weeks, you and the therapist determine your treatment plan and begin your therapy. You will talk about possible causes, the limits your anxieties place on your life and how you can overcome them. You will identify the triggers that start making your feel anxious. </div>
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Anxiety therapy is not easy. The therapist will not fix you. This is something the two of you do together and you do most of the work with assistance from the therapist. But between you, perhaps medication, and the competent therapist you can become free of the distress anxiety causes and live more comfortably.</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10449486002164552303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3743992446000529254.post-5790495423922544742016-01-08T06:20:00.000-06:002016-01-08T06:21:07.878-06:00Donna Speaks: Letter from Home<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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My first visit to my home town since I moved to Arkansas is winding to a close. I'm full of mixed emotions.</div>
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I have spent time with my 90 year old Dad who is amazing. I think he must be the second Benjamin Button! He looks better and feels better than he has in years. He is as witty as ever and continues to be a "social butterfly". Dad has also become the patriarch of not only his extended family, but Mom's family, too. He is loved and respected by so many folk. And that love and respect is well deserved. </div>
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Alex and her SO, Tay, are making their way very successfully in life on their own. They have also given me my first great-grand-daughter, Ahmiree, who at one year two months is a precious, precocious little person already with a mind of her own.</div>
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My beautiful Chyna graduates this year and has scholarships waiting to pay for her college. Her career plan is to become a pharmacist. Chyna will succeed as she has in the past as a gymnast and as a cheerleader at her high school. She also fit right into our family, and my heart, when she and Mom, Afeni, moved from Los Angeles after her mom married my son, Tod, six years ago.</div>
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My red-headed Autumn (from her Dad and my grandmother) is our family's drama queen. Always has been and I imagine always will be. She is a gifted artist and she has agreed to collaborate with me in illustrating some of my stories. Autumn has always been determined to be her own person and defies others to try and change her.</div>
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My black-curly-haired Martin is a computer wiz and practical joker. The last time I saw him was a year ago. In those twelve months he has grown at least four inches and his voice went from a boy's to a man's. He's my laid back, devil-may-care grandchild. Martin is also very deep and sensitive. He gives the best hugs.</div>
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I am so lucky to have these little people as my grandchildren.</div>
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I'm writing this today in the home of my bestest friend, Chris. Since we were six years old we have always played well together. Her friendship is precious to me and her home has often been my sanctuary and was our sanctuary after Hurricane Katrina took our home. Chris is a remarkably strong and resourceful woman who has gone through some real crap in her life. Three years ago, during the holidays, she lost her oldest child, Kim, aged 42, and her mom within a day of each other. This visit, she nursed me through the first damned cold I've had in years - a gift from my Dad. I will be writing more about Chris in the future; she is a Healer and I want to share her knowledge.</div>
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I am so lucky to have had Chris as a friend for life.</div>
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I'll wrap this post up now. I will sorely miss my family and my friend, but I also sorely miss Jan and our "children", Bella and Sandy. I think this is kind of a nice dilemma to have.</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10449486002164552303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3743992446000529254.post-69483490013034591552016-01-07T05:40:00.002-06:002016-01-07T05:40:50.057-06:00Regional Idioms. What Fun<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I know I talk a lot about language and communication, changes, meanings and how powerful words can be. But regional idioms can often say something powerful and so funny, you remember it for years. I love them, understand them, no matter where they came from and admire the person who thought them up.</div>
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<span style="color: #323333;">"He couldn't find his ass with both hands in his back pockets."</span></div>
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<span style="color: #323333;">"He's so dumb, he could throw himself on the ground and miss."</span></div>
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<span style="color: #323333;">"There's a tree stump in a Louisiana swamp with a higher IQ."</span></div>
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<span style="color: #323333;">I love finding regional language. Seems as if folks can come up with the most colorful descriptions for everyday things. I know I sometimes don’t like language changing all that much, but regional speech enriches us all.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12px;">Most of you know that we bloggers can see in the back door of our blogs. We can see who reads what, and how many people visit every day or every week or every year. I started this blog in May 2014 with no real idea who would read it or how many.</span><span style="font-size: 12px;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12px;">I am pleased to see that so many read our words.</span><span style="font-size: 12px;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12px;">If you have any ideas on posts you would like to see, please let me know and we will do our best to accommodate you. We are pretty proud of how far our brand new blog has come in just a few months. We hope to grow exponentially, and if we don't we sure are having fun writing.</span></div>
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After the storm hit, Civil Defense arrived to take volunteers to help. Because Maggie was an MD, she was first in line. She gave me a white coat and called me an MD as well. I wondered about their being two Dr Russells, but she said no one would notice and she was right.</div>
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We set up field hospitals from Pass Christian to Gulfport. The hospitals weren’t much. We stole from drug stores to get aspirin and rubbing alcohol. There was no running water and we needed to wash our hands somehow. Alcohol did the trick. </div>
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We rubbed any marks off the aspirin tablets so no one would know what they were and gave them out like M and M’s warning people to lie down after taking them as they were powerful tranquilizers. People did what we said because we had white coats on.</div>
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Most of the people who came to the field hospitals were people who had everything they owned in a shopping bag and most of them could not find any other members of their families or friends. For that matter, they couldn’t find their houses either.</div>
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Beside putting bandaids on, cleaning scrapes and bruises, I had one job, only one job. By day two we had military help driving what they called a 6 by 6. They went everywhere collecting corpses. We had them lined up in the area just outside the high school where we had our hospital.</div>
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Every night, Walter Cronkite sent a runner over to get a new body count. I would count the ever increasing stacks and send the runner back with the new numbers.</div>
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The same thing happened after Katrina, but by then we knew what it was. In 1969, we didn't.</div>
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So when Cronkite’s runner arrived that night, I realized I did not have a correct count and perhaps never would. I tried to explain, but could not. So Walter never got a correct number. </div>
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To this day, no one really knows how many fatalities Hurricane Camille produced. </div>
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I had one job, only one job…..</div>
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