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We are two disabled, oldish women who have been adventuring through life for years. We are talking about how disabilities, both visible and not, change the way we enjoy our retirement.
Showing posts with label retirement. Show all posts
Showing posts with label retirement. Show all posts

Sunday, January 3, 2016

Looking Back Looking Forward

Now that we have started a new year, I want to copy every other blogger and have a look back to when we started and what we have evolved into.

I started this blog to point out and perhaps help correct the mobility and other accessibility deficits in businesses and events in our little town of Mountain View AR.

In learning about the small town we had just retired to, I found that except for Walmart, one other supermarket, fast food joints and the Ozark Folk Center (mostly) are the only places that are accessible.

No other business is. They may say they are, but sure as hell, there’s a step up, a door that won’t open, aisles that are too narrow, or no way to turn around once you get in.  There is one that made a ramp in the back of the store right next to the dumpster. The ramp is the service entrance. I should give them points for trying, but I’m not.

And what’s more, the town is almost proud of their inaccessibility.  “If it was good enough for grandpa, it’s good enough for us and if you don’t like it, leave”  

For all the business owners know, I could be a dripping with money tourist who wants to buy every piece of inventory they have, but they would rather I not enter their store or better yet, get out their sight.

Granted, I am not dripping with money and never could pretend I was. Sartorial splendor was never my strong suit, so I do look as if I could be going to the second hand store looking for a hand-out. But they don’t know that.  

I have richer than Croesus friends who look like ragpickers and have been turned away at the homeless shelter office and told to go wait in line for a bed when they went to donate $10,000.00. Ya never know.

Most of the business you expect to find in a viable small town are no longer here. The stores are mostly flea markets and second hand or consignment stores.  One says it is upscale. I have not been in there, so I wouldn’t know. Hell, I wouldn’t know upscale in a real upscale store.  

There’s a hardware store/lumber yard. I go in there and spend money. While I can’t enter easily, they do have a scooter I can use and I do use it.

There is one place that sells cell phones, one computer repair store, a couple of drug stores, an auto repair shop, two car dealerships, an optometrist, a dentist and that’s about it. Oh, there’s a hospital and a few doctors’ offices, none of which I have visited.

So even if I started this blog to point out the inaccessibility of Mountain View and assist them in meeting accessibility goals, I soon realized that aside from 3 or 4 businesses, Mountain View is not accessible. And what’s more, they have no interest in becoming accessible.  And will let you know vociferously.  

Their stated views are thus:  “If the government tells me I have to do it, I will NOT do it!”


I used to try to spend money locally on what I need . I don’t do that anymore. I get what I need from Amazon.  If Mountain View doesn’t want me to buy anything in town, I will be happy not to.

Monday, December 28, 2015

Things I Think About


Each year somewhere around now, I have a look back at my ever increasing years and write down things about myself that seemed important, at least at the time

1) I cannot seem to recover from PTSD following the loss of our house in Hurricane Katrina even if it has been 10 years.

2) I once took a year long motorcycle trip and visited every national park in the US.

3) I am so glad I did so much traveling when I was young and could enjoy it more.

4) I spent so much time in church as a youngster, I said I would never ever set foot in one again and haven't

5)  I spent years studying organized religion and realized that it is a huge power trip by the leaders who want only power and control over many.  National politics is much the same.

6) I am very spiritual, knowing that we are all part of the same natural web of life.  I find myself and all others in nature.

7)  I am probably the shyest person on earth.

8) I am completely at ease with a microphone in my hand standing in front of 10,000 people.

9) I question everything. Always have and always will.  It got me in lots of trouble and still does.

10) I love learning and never want to stop.

11) I read drug store trash novels.

12) Motorcycles mean freedom to me.

13) I only worked to feed my travel addiction.

14) Retirement is OK, but getting on a ladder or picking up something heavy is much harder to do.

15)  Surviving Katrina was the hardest thing I ever did. No, quitting smoking was the hardest thing I ever did. Surviving Katrina was the second hardest thing.

16) When I came out, the whole world suddenly came clear.

17) I think swimming is staying alive in the water, but I loved to water ski.

18) Sailing is a great way to spend any amount of time.

19) I rarely leave the house without a camera, but am not a great photographer and it's time I accepted that.

20) I am a hack writer. Most all writers are better than I am, but I still keep grinding out words.

21) Everything I have done in my life to make a living was a success.

22) I was 48 years old before I found my passion and earned a living at it.

23) The politicians of the United States are owned by corporations. Their running of the government is only an attempt to keep their jobs.  

24) I think my great-nephew is a really cool kid.


25) I moved to Arkansas to my dream house.  This house and land makes retirement fantastic.